hmmm, perhaps i should have further explained myself...
by force, i mean using full-blown military invasions and strikes, they just dont work in situations like Iraq, Chechnya, etc. where you are at odds with the people, and the people are at odds with you, and in such dynamic places like the middle east where it is so easy for people to change sides on a whim and for political angst to literally cause terrorism, insurgents, rebels, etc., full blown military operations and invasions are suicide...
at the same time, as I said, Russia has brought alot of this on itself, as we have as well... which brings me to my point of fight smart and not with fire, you can go about killing every enemy in the world, but it will only create more enemies, Chechnya being the ultimate example of "it takes two to make a war happen", you dont think the Russians are being compassionate about Chechans? they want to win, and killing off all enemies is the name of the game (politics being the instigator of it all), and the end result is a World War 2 similar landscape of total destruction, this has only served to gain supporters for the Chechan rebels and their terrorist backers (and who can really blame them? if somebody turned NYC into annihilated Stalingrad, i would be just as willing to defend myself, albeit their ways of fighting are different)...
use diplomacy when it can be used, use as many covert operations as possible, get people in there to strike at things from the inside, use politics to force regimes to crack down on these people... anything overt only serves to make things worse in the end, and our ability to drop lots of bombs on other countries is more than enough to cause the radical minds of some middle easterners to do the worst they can...
(and at the same time, dont let yourselves become them, dont go about with the idea of willing to die to kill them, that is exactly how they think, and is exactly how we lose)
this is a completely different war, more so a psychological war than one of brute force and immediate results... it just doesnt work like that anymore
at least... thats my opinion...